Sexy Spanking Tips

 Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Spanking Is Right Here

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Back in the day, your mother might have spanked you if you were in trouble—for example, if you refused to come home after playing outside with your neighbors or started throwing around cuss words because you thought you were cool. Those were not pleasant times.

Adult spanking, on the other hand, can be a pleasure rather than a punishment (unless you're into that sort of thing...wink, wink). “Erotic spanking is a type of consensual impact play in which the buttocks, thighs, breasts, or other fleshy areas of the body are struck with hands or tools.” 

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According to a pleasure coach, spanking triggers the production of a mix of "feel good chemicals" in the brain, which helps to alleviate the pain. “Dopamine, adrenaline, oxytocin, and endorphins are produced, transforming the impact into a delightful experience,” she continues, noting that the mere sound of it might arouse some people.

A pleasure coach strongly recommended that you come up with a safe word with your partner before you start so the two of you know when to halt the action. Try something simple, like "red" or "apple," which can be said quickly and without being forgotten.

How to Spank a Woman to Orgasm

It's time to spank after you've come up with a safe word! Starting with your hands is a good place to start. “ The palm of the hand is more fleshy, producing a thudded hit and a loud noise. Using your fingers to strike the butt provides a stronger sting and can be used to tap different areas of the butt.

Dr. Rebecca Plante, an associate professor who published the research Sexual Spanking, the Self, and the Construction of Deviance in 2006, feels the solution lies in sexual scripts in the cultural, subcultural, and interpersonal realms.

“Cultural scripts relate to national ideologies and expectations, subcultural to those ideologies at the local level (or according to ethnic or religious group), and interpersonal to interactions you have with others.”

“These combine to form intrapsychic scripts, the sociological blueprints that shape our sexual interests, which ultimately answer the who, what, where, when, why, and how of one’s sexuality and sexual practices”.

 Here’s a short guide to the art of spanking.

Spank

Spank a lot. Do not be merciful. A drooping, meek spanking is pointless. It's the equivalent of a shaky handshake. No one believes in them. As a result, consider quality and a short, crisp spanking. Plus, I prefer to work with my hands. There are no canes or whips required.

 Stroke

Then there's the gentle part. I've succumbed to the burning pain after two or three spanks. Is it reasonable to expect a little tenderness? No, I don't think so. Does it, however, turn me on? Yes, absolutely. I enjoy a soft caress to ease my sensitive skin and unwind my mind for a few moments.

Tease

Wow, if you brush against my pussy lips just a little bit during this tender time. In a fraction of a second, you've improved your technique. The sensation is extraordinary. Consider the sensations: stinging pain, gentle caressing, and a tempting surge of pleasure. Perfection.

Repeat

You are now free to proceed. Let's go over everything again. And once more. Repeat, repeat, repeat. You can tell when it's time to take it to the next level by listening to your partner's sounds and motions. When they start to walk away or protest, you know they've had enough of the spanking and taunting.

Finger

Now it's time for the magic fingers to shine. Go ahead and enter inside this time when you tickle the pussy lips. It should be dripping wet inside. Your companion will be craving for your touch by this time.

Orgasm

Allow the orgasm to flow through them as you softly stroke their clit. Right now, all of their favorite sensations are raging through their bodies. All you have to do now is relax and enjoy yourself. You've perfected the ultimate spanking method.